BEGINNING TODAY ♥

DATE: JANUARY 31, 2013

Days went by so fast and this is the last day of the month. Bye January... Hello February ... L♥ve month... Well, I guess people that are in love are excited to celebrate love on Feb...

 How about me? Let me think.... Of course I am ...Fresh start from the crying days... it's over and Past needs to be done and say goodbye to it. I am not "bitter" anymore. I think the last blog that I posted made me realize that LIFE GOES ON... and don't hate the person that hurts you. Just thank that person. I read some inspirational quotes earlier and I feel happier while reading it. Let me post the quote:

Everyone has a problem and if you are strong to handle it you can survive. I guess, I am brave enough to face the problem with the help of my friends and my mom. I don't need to stay in the dark and be alone. I know that I can learn from this. When I try to look back about what had happen between us I think there are more happy memories than sad. I think I don't regret my decision. I already done my part and I don't have to feel sad anymore. I survive. I am happy.

Everything happens for a reason. Everyone needs to feel pain so that they can learn from it.  You need to stand up if someone push you. Don't think negative things. Smile always.  Close your eyes ... Relax... Free your mind from sadness ... Be thankful that you survive the test that you encountered. It's your choice.. If you want to be sad... Be sad.. but if you want to move on and Be Happy... YeS! 

The next blog will be different.. The REAL DEE... for sure.. The happier... The craziness is ON... Thanks for reading my blog.. Thanks for the advice... I am going to write my story and my LOVE story (real soooonnn...) but he is not yet around he must have been lost somewhere... Till next time.. LOVE is still around... I'm going to catch it for sure....

   

DEE♥

SOMEDAY... PRINCE CHARMING!

This is my second part of my blog.  Last night while I was listening to music ... I heard Nina's Song : Someday. I was touched by the lyrics. Still I cannot forget the line:

 

This song is appropriate for me. But does anyone of you believe in Prince Charming? I don't want to be "bitter"  but I am in doubt with the "Prince Charming thing". 

Every girl wants somebody to be with them in their life.They want  to have a partner or better half that will love them forever and be loyal to them. As, I am writing this down I'm smiling and asking myself why do I feel this way? Why??? Bitterness can't make me happy. It's like I am still holding on with that person and can't move on.  Girl, you need to stop it! Don't be bitter with other couples or other people that are in love.

There will be a right time that you will FALL IN LOVE again. You will meet the right PRINCE for YOU. Just be happy and smile always. Try to have a break for awhile.Have fun first. If the right person comes, grab the opportunity and remember all the mistakes that you did from the past and don't do it again. 

I think HAPPY ENDING is REAL. PRINCE CHARMING is REAL. Don't lose hope. Love will find you. God will give you a right time and right person that will LOVE YOU FOREVER. Just be thankful that person made you happy once and let you feel love. 

The next chapter of my life starts .... New Life... New things and New people to meet...

Love is just around there... Someday someone will love me for REAL! Someday, I'll get my HAPPY ENDING ^_^

 

DEE♥

  

FORGET him FOR REAL!!!

DATE : JANUARY 30, 2013

Today, I feeling much better than yesterday. I am now in the acceptance phase. I already told myself that our love story needs to be ended.

LOVE ... LOVE ... LOVE... is such a great feeling. When a person is in love she is inspired and blooming but how about if the person FALLS OUT OF LOVE... Can she mend a broken heart on her own? Can she forgets the person that hurts her the most? Can she move on to the next phase of her life?

I can give you TIPS that can help you EASE the PAIN:

Since I am starting to accept and moving on... The hardest phase is ACCEPTANCE that the person that you are waiting for and you love will never come back. A lot of tears, shattered dreams and happy memories are starting to fade away. 

But girl, you need to be brave enough to stand up and heal your broken heart. I know that it's so easy to say but try to SMILE again. Smiling is one of the things that can help you to ease the pain. Smile makes your day brighter!

 

Look for ACTIVITIES that can help you not to remember him. Go out with  your friends, go shopping, watch a movie, try to do a BLOG (like me ^_^) just let yourself be BUSY.  

If you have enough budget, you can ask a friend to accompany you to TRAVEL to another place like going to the beach so that you can RELAX your mind. Try to have a massage and do spa there. 

  

Stay away from Alcoholic Drinks it can't help you with your problems it can gives you more PAIN. Headache and Hangover!

How about making yourself be BEAUTIFUL ... like go to salon and have a hair spa. You can do manicure and pedicure with a friend well, this is the time to do a girl bonding with your friends after the crying time. 

You can do SLEEP OVER to your friends house you can do movie marathon, have a popcorn and chit chat times with them but don't open up about the EX thing coz you might be crying again and walks out of the room.

Lastly, never ever reminisce the past relationship you had with him. You can keep the happy part but don't be so attach with it. Day by day, you will FORGET that person and you can GET OUT of that sadness and be FREE.  

Some relationships have a happy ending and some needs to end because both parties are not meant to be forever. But do not just stay in the dark and cry. Get out and have fun! We need to be happy and live life to the fullest! People come and go. Love yourself first before loving others.

 Thanks for reading ^_^

DEE♥ 

 

~HeartBroken~

http://www.familyfriendpoems.com/poem/thoughts-of-the-broken-hearted

DEE♥

DATE: JANUARY 29, 2013  

Today, I started to write my own blog about my everyday life. 

I hope this can help me to ease the pain that I am feeling. I started to feel this when he didn't text back...

I met a this guy online. His a type of guy that every girl wants. Sweet, Nice, Kind all positive traits is there. We started chatting and we became so close and that time he opens up to me everything and he said that he likes me. At first, I can't believe and I am thinking that he is just joking on me. As time pass by,my feelings for him become deeper. So, when that time comes when he asked me to be his girlfriend I said "YES" . He proposed using a voice note and it was so sweet because it's my first time that a guy propose to me. Everything went well with the relationship. We're in LOVE ♥♥♥

A few months later, I was jealous of the girls that is trying to be flirty with him he can't blame me. We fought about it. He told me not to be jealous because I am the only girl that he loves. Isn't that sweet? I tried not to be jealous I tried to understand that he has a lot of Girl Friends. 

We are in our second month with no fighting and jealousy. And to my surprise he sent something that my heart melts. It's my favorite singer CD. So sweet ♥ We are miles apart and he sent it to me. A for effort!!!

But.... The worse day happen, he suddenly didn't text me. The last time that he said was to download a messenger because the other application that we are using is eats his battery time so fast. I know that day he is going to take an exam. After the day pass, he is still not contacting me. That time I feel worried and a lot of thoughts running through my mind. I tried to tell myself and even my mom said that maybe he is busy. 

  

Weeks had pass and I didn't hear from him. Text ... Call... Messenger ... Facebook... Instagram... Twitter... NO! All in all he is like a ghost *POOF*

I don't know what happen to him. What did I do wrong? We didn't fight or had a problem?

Today, I still feel the same I on the phase that I need to accept that I need to let him go. I need to forget him and move on with my life. I know that it's hard to accept that he suddenly left me hanging but I need to accept it. 

Moving On and Letting go is difficult but we need to let go of that person even if it hurts you much. In time, all wounds are going to heal. I want to start a new beginning. Out with Old. In with New. It's not that I will have a new relationship but I want to start a new beginning. Smile and Be Happy!

I guess some relationships don't stay FOREVER.

"When you let go, you give yourself peace."

“If you let go a little, you will have a little peace. If you let go a lot, you will have a lot of peace.”   

I am so happy to have friends and a mom that so supportive and always there for me. Gives me advices. Listen to me. Stay beside me.

LET GO and MOVE ON.... BE HAPPY AND SMILE AGAIN!

-end-

DEE♥