DATE : JANUARY 30, 2013
Today, I feeling much better than yesterday. I am now in the acceptance phase. I already told myself that our love story needs to be ended.
LOVE ... LOVE ... LOVE... is such a great feeling. When a person is in love she is inspired and blooming but how about if the person FALLS OUT OF LOVE... Can she mend a broken heart on her own? Can she forgets the person that hurts her the most? Can she move on to the next phase of her life?
I can give you TIPS that can help you EASE the PAIN:
Since I am starting to accept and moving on... The hardest phase is ACCEPTANCE that the person that you are waiting for and you love will never come back. A lot of tears, shattered dreams and happy memories are starting to fade away.
But girl, you need to be brave enough to stand up and heal your broken heart. I know that it's so easy to say but try to SMILE again. Smiling is one of the things that can help you to ease the pain. Smile makes your day brighter!
Look for ACTIVITIES that can help you not to remember him. Go out with your friends, go shopping, watch a movie, try to do a BLOG (like me ^_^) just let yourself be BUSY.
If you have enough budget, you can ask a friend to accompany you to TRAVEL to another place like going to the beach so that you can RELAX your mind. Try to have a massage and do spa there.
Stay away from Alcoholic Drinks it can't help you with your problems it can gives you more PAIN. Headache and Hangover!
How about making yourself be BEAUTIFUL ... like go to salon and have a hair spa. You can do manicure and pedicure with a friend well, this is the time to do a girl bonding with your friends after the crying time.
You can do SLEEP OVER to your friends house you can do movie marathon, have a popcorn and chit chat times with them but don't open up about the EX thing coz you might be crying again and walks out of the room.
Lastly, never ever reminisce the past relationship you had with him. You can keep the happy part but don't be so attach with it. Day by day, you will FORGET that person and you can GET OUT of that sadness and be FREE.
Some relationships have a happy ending and some needs to end because both parties are not meant to be forever. But do not just stay in the dark and cry. Get out and have fun! We need to be happy and live life to the fullest! People come and go. Love yourself first before loving others.
Thanks for reading ^_^
DEE♥
Hi dee! ^^ This is such an inspiring post. FOr sure one day, you'll get over him and when you look back you will be surprised how brave your heart is and how much you've grown. Stay positive and keep posting in your blog~
ReplyDeleteLOVE,
ARRIENNE
Coachey Arrienne ^_^
DeleteThank you so much. I tried to think positive than negative now. So happy that I am feeling much better now than the last time.
Yeah! Surely I am will post more... ♥♥♥
DEE♥
Dearest Dee,
ReplyDeleteI'm so proud of you! I am happy on how you choose to handle your heartbreak. I know you deserve to be happy. You are special and beautiful. I have no doubt that you will soon find the man who will love you and will treat you like a queen..the man whom God destined for you.. Just be patient. He's out there...waiting for you.
GODBLESS Dee!Love yeah!:)
Pat,
DeleteI hope someday I'll meet my REAL PRINCE... and write my own LOVE STORY here.. Just like taylor swift song LOVESTORY..
Thank you for the advices. I'll be patient.. PATIENCE is a TALENT hahahaha ^_^ God is with me!
DEE♥
Hi Dee~
ReplyDeleteI have experienced what you are going through right now and you are right, acceptance is really the first step to move on.
If he comes back, make him work for time that was lost. If he doesn't come back then HIS loss not yours :)
I think blogging would be a great way for you to move on. Keep on blogging Dee~~
xoxo
Alice
Alice,
DeleteYes, I am just happy that I accepted it. I think it's better that he won't come back coz I don't want to feel hatred or anger. Even if he has a valid reason I guess it's so hard to forgive...
I need to busy and I guess this is great for me!!!
Thanks so much ^^
DEE♥